"I'm never drinking again."
Famous last words right?
I met a good friend out for happy hour on Friday night. I felt giddy because I'd spent the better part of the day emailing back and forth with this guy I work with on some projects. He's so great ... though he lives and works out of CHICAGO. But that's another story. Let's just say that Friday was a very long night.
So it all started with me sitting at the bar, sipping my Johnny Walker black, waiting for my friend Kay... when I look over and see Jay, one of my best friends, walk in. I wave and call out to him before I realize he is out with a woman who is NOT his fiancee. Oooooppps.
He rushed over to me with a big hug and a very nervous... "this is a working meeting" ... explanation for the reason why he was having drinks with a very leggy, very blond, very busty lady.
Then he asked me what I was doing there and who I was meeting.
That's when my friend Kay strolled in. Of course, Kay assumed Jay was having a drink with me. So she gives him a big hello and starts asking about the wedding plans and where is his future wife -- when he abruptly excuses himself to join the mystery blond.
"Wh.... where'd he go?"
"He had to run to his working dinner," I said.
"Oh. You know, I've noticed that more and more people are having meetings over dinner or drinks. Who's he meeting with?"
I tilt my head and nod over to the cozy corner table where he is seated across from the blond.
"Oooohhhhhhh. That doesn't look like a working meeting."
"I don't think so," I said and left it at that.
That was on Friday night. I haven't spoken or emailed Jay since -- which is uncharacteristic.
This is awful... so awkward. I've known him for almost seven years. I'm definitely better friends with him than with his fiancee -- though I adore her and she worships him.
I want to smack him upside the head.
So now what do I do? If anything? Should I call him and ask him what the hell he's doing? Should I let it go and act like nothing happened? Should I wait and see what he does or says?